Lovey’s BBQ & Smokehouse
Does the date of your birthday conflict with other celebrations? I love my May birthday, as the blossoms on our flowering fruit trees typically bloom this weekend and the weather is balmy, without any pesky bugs, that will be along soon enough. Often times when my birthday arrives though, I feel as if I was just showered with affection and gifts for Mother’s Day and that doing so again so soon, must feel redundant for D and our family. They don’t display this in the least, it is me, projecting how I might feel in their shoes.
I am more than content to celebrate in the back yard with something fun put onto the barbeque but this just occurred for Mother’s Day and I think that everyone needed a break from cooking and hosting. So I asked if we could go to Lovey’s BBQ and Smokehouse. Reputed to be the best barbeque in the city, I had yet to see for myself.
Even with our late afternoon arrival on a Sunday, the place was hopping and our large party was asked if we would like to sit in their party room. We were having a party, so why not? We did feel a little bit cut off from the rest of the restaurant, which was not such a good thing when we wondered where on earth people had disappeared to, when they went to place our order. There was a new cashier on, doing her level best to pick up the procedure, but the poor girl was a bit overwhelmed. We had no concern about the wait, but because we all have hospitality backgrounds, it was hard not to vault over the counter and help her out.
We got the entire family in 1 shot including the waitress!
Our privacy did mean that we could carry out our birthday tradition started by Daughter #2 for The Frenchman’s birthday this past winter. We go around the table and share what we especially love about the person who’s birthday is being celebrated. This is my favourite part about getting another year older, secure in the fact that my short term memory loss and brown age spots aren’t negating the way my family feels about me. Or perhaps, they do feel differently, but they are all so sweet, they would never tell me so.
But to our dinner…. D ordered a round of Hog Spit beer, Burnt Ends and Fried Pickles. I especially enjoyed the burnt ends, but some in our family were concerned about the fat content. I know that fat is what delivers the flavour, but tried to restrain myself.
Dinner choices were varied from Pulled Pork Poutine (Daughter #2’s favourite dish from last summer spent in Montreal),
to a full rack of back ribs
and my half chicken (I ate the wing and the fabulous hand cut fries and packed up the rest for home).
Pulled pork was chosen by the rest of the gang and was also a big hit. All meat choices were lovely and moist, but still firm, which is our criteria for good pulled pork and ribs. The barbeque sauce was tasty and so appreciated, that additional cupfuls were requested.
We all know that good barbeque must have a bevy of “sides” and Lovey’s are amazing: a dense cornbread with a pleasant sweetness, homemade pit beans and creamy cole slaw. D sampled the potato salad but everyone else went for the hand cut fries, which were plentiful and perfectly prepared.
An extra side of real chips was placed in the centre of the harvest sized table and even though we were all stuffed, they were fun to pick at (like peanuts). I would go back for these even if the meat had not been exceptional.
Our dessert was also a family tradition: Jeanne’s banana cake with a shortbread cookie bottom and lots of chocolate shavings. Even though I am not a big dessert eater, I could tuck into this cake morning, noon and night and often do so, when there are leftovers after my birthday celebration.
When birthdays are recognized as another year well lived and well loved, how could they be a dreaded thing?
Kath’s quote: “Grilling, broiling, barbecuing – whatever you want to call it – is
an art, not just a matter of building a pyre and throwing on a piece of
meat as a sacrifice to the gods of the stomach.” James Beard
Love-that is all.
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